‘I regret leaving home when my mother had her second illness’

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'I regret leaving home when my mother had her second illness'





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A few months ago Alejandra Rubio He decided to make the leap to television by participating as a commentator on different programs. Spaces in which the granddaughter of María Teresa Campos has remained in a discreet background, without making references to her personal life or to her family, just focusing on work. However, this Saturday afternoon the young woman surprised all the spectators of Live life showing the most unknown parts of his life. In the aforementioned space, he has participated in a game of sincerity called The ladder of emotions, where she has indicated that she knows that the public does not know her because she sins as an introvert. It has also recognized that she has a hard time talking about her things with people who love her except with his father, whom he has defined as his best friend despite having had a less close relationship during adolescence. From the hand of Emma García, he explained that he would like to resume the visits he made to the psychologist for a time and has addressed four different topics: guilt, forgiveness, repentance and distancing.



Alejandra Rubio in 'Viva la vida'


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Alejandra Rubio in ‘Viva la vida’


In the first part of the game, he admitted that he feels guilty for not being around his mother twenty-four hours a day when he was detected for the second time in summer 2018. “I feel guilty about many things, but the that is more than when my mother had the second disease. Just at that moment I left home, I decided to become independent, “she began to relate, assuring that at that time she was selfish because she only thought of herself. Although Terelu Campos he always tried to keep her out of everything so as not to make her suffer -especially after losing his father’s wife to the same illness-, she believes that she should have waited to leave home due to the circumstances, since living with her “could have supported her emotionally”. She has also praised the courage of her mother: “She had a very bad time, I looked at her and said how could it be, that I could not bear even half.”

Alejandra has admitted that she has never spoken to her mother about this issue for two reasons. The first is that it is difficult for him to express his feelings, and the second is that when he disappoints someone, he tries not to face the situation. However, this story has made her realize that the situation must change and she must bet on speaking openly with the people around her. “My mother and I love each other very much, but we don’t say things to each other and I want to do it, we have never sat down to ask for forgiveness. When we get angry, after five minutes we are normal and it is as if nothing had happened, and that is bad because there are things that always stay there, “he said.



Alejandra Rubio in 'Viva la vida'


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Alejandra Rubio in ‘Viva la vida’

Alejandra’s disappointments

When she has moved to the step of forgiveness, the protagonist has once again been Terelu Campos. “Forgiveness is for my mother too. It is with the person that I have been through the most and with whom I keep quiet the most. I ask forgiveness for a thousand things. I know that my character is very complicated and she endures it a lot, she can bear it with just 18 years I was going to live my life without allowing anyone to get involved, and that is unfair too, “he acknowledged. Furthermore, although he defines his mother as a protective but not overwhelming person, he believes that the relationship has been more complicated than with his father because he has lived with her. Despite these heartfelt words, Alejandra has commented that she has no regrets about what she has done in her life because all the decisions she has made are because she felt that way and mistakes have helped her to learn.

Another of the most emotional moments has taken place on the verge of finishing the interview, when he has had to address the distancing. Ale -as her loved ones call her affectionately- says that it hurts that they always judge her for her family and do not value her work and effort. In this sense, she says that many people have been removed from her life because many have approached her out of interest. “I have had bad experiences in friendship. Many, many. It has been going on all my life and I have the radar alert, but there is always someone who cheats you in some way. When I meet someone, I put him at home with everyone. And my mother always tells me to be careful because not everyone loves you for who you are. I’ve left more friends behind than I’d like, and some threaten to come out and tell me about myself. It makes me angry that someone who loved me hurt me like that“, he has recognized without hiding the emotion.

Terelu Campos’s reaction

From his home, Terelu has lived through the small screen this exercise of sincerity of his daughter, whom he has called. Thus, he has entered the program live and the first thing he has done is make a comment regarding the last part of his statements. “I always tell him to protect himself, but he cannot live distrusting everyone and it is something that I have tried to instill in him. Whoever comes with bad intentions, what a pity. Life is full of disappointments and that of friends are the most painful” , said the presenter. After this, she referred to her daughter’s regret for not being with her anymore during cancer. “I do not have to forgive anything, among other things because I have tried to keep her out of my illness as much as possible because she is what matters most to me in the world and I want her to suffer as little as possible. The second part was very hard, it was terrible . When he left home it was not easy for me because I did not expect him so soon, but in the end, not being home was better for me because I allowed myself to hide less or hide less the intentr “, has recognized.

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