Evan Marc Katz
Considered the best “personal trainer for smart, strong and successful women”. He is the author of the books: Why You’re Still Single, Believe in love, Why He Disappeared. His work has been published in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Time, USA Today, and CNN. Since 2015, Evan’s blog has more than 30 million readers. 12,000 women have graduated from Love U, her six-month video course that helps women understand men and find love
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5 tolerable things in a relationship: trying to change it is ridiculous
Has annoying habits: be late, leave the toilet up, wear old clothes you don’t like
Slideshow: The Most Absurd Rules of Conquest of the 1930s, 1940s, and 1950s (StarsInsider)
He makes less money than you: It doesn’t have to support you financially, it has to support you emotionally.
You notice other women: talks about experience with exes, still turns his head towards other women
It is different from you: An independent man you respect will not do everything you want, when you want it, and how you want it.
It is tolerant: kindness is often confused with weakness, but finding a man who accepts you completely is no small thing; you shouldn’t blame him for not being more fierce / critical.
5 things you should not put up with:
Lack of character: a guy who lies and does unethical things in business is probably unethical as a romantic partner
Lack of kindness: You have to do at least some of the little things: housework, parenting, asking about your day, trying to improve your life.
Lack of communication: unwillingness to listen to your feelings, unwillingness to talk about yours, unwillingness to apologize
Lack of compromise: cheating is never acceptable, even if it’s just virtual
Lack of coherence: only hear from him once a week, silent treatments after fights